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You Have Seen This Leader at Their Best. And Then the Pressure Arrived.

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You have seen this leader at their best.


Driven. Curious. Collaborative. Decisive.


And then the pressure arrived. A new role. An expanded scope. A restructuring that demanded more than anything they had navigated before.


Something shifted. The team felt it before anyone above them named it.


This is not a unique story. According to Navid Nazemian, author of Mastering Executive Transitions: The Definitive Guide, Book Excellence Award winner in the Leadership Category 2026 and Gold Medal recipient in Business at the 2025 Global Book Awards — 40% of executives fail within their first 18 months in a new role. The cost is 10 to 30 times the executive's package. And most leaders and organizations do not see it coming or know how costly it can be.


That gap is preventable. And the path to closing it is clearer than most organizations realize.


The Bright Side of Leadership


Last week we explored the zero overlap between the top five competencies global executives display and the top five competencies employees say they want their leaders to demonstrate. The predictable promotion problem. The gap between who gets promoted and who their people actually want to follow.


This week the same research offers something more encouraging.


Hogan Assessments' The Leadership Divide identifies a finding that changes the development conversation entirely.


The bright side of personality — how leaders behave at their best — is where today's leaders show the most alignment with what their teams actually want.


At their best — when they are self-aware, intentional, and monitoring their behavior — today's leaders already demonstrate what followers are asking for. They balance competition with cooperation. They listen as well as they speak. They are confident and decisive while remaining open and collaborative.


As Dr. Robert Hogan observed: you cannot get ahead unless you can get along.


The leaders your people want to follow are not a different kind of leader. They are the leaders you already have — operating at their best.


The challenge is not who they are in their best moments. It is what happens when the pressure arrives and they stop monitoring the qualities that made them worth following.


What Happens When the Pressure Arrives


Under pressure. Under stress. Under the weight of a new role that demands more than anything they have navigated before.


The strengths that served them well become overused. Confidence tips into arrogance. Competitive drive becomes self-focus. The vision that earned the promotion becomes the self-absorption that loses the team.


72% of employees say emotional volatility and unpredictability undermine leadership effectiveness. 59% say arrogance and entitlement do the same.


These are not the behaviors of ineffective leaders. They are the behaviors of effective leaders under pressure, leaders who have stopped monitoring the qualities that made them worth following in the first place.


That is the gap. Not between who gets promoted and who should lead. Between who leaders are at their best and who they become when the pressure arrives and nobody is creating the space to name it honestly.


The Interior Work of a Leadership Transition


Most organizations prepare leaders for the visible requirements of a new role. The technical demands. The stakeholder expectations. The strategic priorities. Those get addressed.


What rarely gets addressed is the interior work.


Who do I need to become in this role, not just what do I need to do?


Where are my strengths serving me and where are they starting to cost me?


What does the team need from me that I have not yet learned to give?


Those questions do not get answered in an onboarding plan or a stakeholder mapping session. They get answered in a genuine coaching conversation — honest, exploratory, and free from the political filters that shape every conversation inside the organization.


Leaders who create space for that conversation — who are willing to examine what the transition is actually asking of them — are the ones who sustain their best qualities under pressure. Who build the trust that performance depends on. Who lead in a way that their teams actually want to follow.


People intuitively know what makes a good or bad leader. And leaders who act on that knowledge can increase engagement, build high-performing teams, and drive results that matter.


That is the standard worth building toward. And it begins with one honest conversation.


20 Complimentary Conversations This Summer


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I am offering 20 complimentary ⏰ 60-minute conversations about leadership transitions this summer. Grounded in the Double Diamond Framework©.


10 conversations for leaders based in Europe 🇧🇪

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Sign up from May 11 through May 31.


I work with senior leaders navigating leadership transitions through executive transition coaching and strategic advisory that complement each other in service of the leader and the organization.


If you are navigating a leadership transition right now or if you are a CHRO who has a leader who needs this conversation, send me a DM via LinkedIn or reach out directly.


And if you are in Brussels on June 9, join us for an evening of honest conversation about leadership. The Leadership Identity Forum is already on LinkedIn, find more details and registration via the website.



 
 
 

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